I love queer shit. Fuck your heteronormative and vaguely Christian relationships. Similarly, I hate labels. Unless the label is lesbian I love lesbians. But another label I enjoy is queerplatonic relationships.
Queerplatonic relationships differ from All Other Relationships in the sense that it's deeper and in some cases more intimate than a friendship, but without the traditional expectations and in some cases the romantic/sexual attraction associated with romantic relationships. From my understanding the term originated from the aroace community, but can apply to people of any orientation (I'm open to corrections and education if I'm wrong <3). What it means differs between relationships, but a generally agreed upon definition is that it refers to a relationship different from existing classifications of relationships, wherein the members are (ideally) lifelong partners, and experience a level of connection unique to them.
Getting into a QPR is scary. Especially considering it's an 'alternative' kind of relationship, an important step is to establish boundaries and what the relationship means to the people involved. This could entail expectations of emotional availability, sexual boundaries (whether or not there is a sex life in the relationship), physical and emotional boundaries, and boundaries for relationships inside or outside of the QPR (especially in the case of open/polyamorous relationships). In saying all of this I want to reiterate how important communication is to any type of relationship. In listing these things, I'm trying to prompt examples of the most important things to a QPR. In fact, if possible, right now, ask your significant other (whether platonic, romantic, familial, or otherwise) if there's anything they need. Need to say, need to do, need you to do. Anything.
Tangent aside, if you've made it this far, you get to know why I made this post. First, I think it's important to, during pride month, acknowledge more than just the monogamous romantic and sexual parts of the LGBTQ+ community and queer folk. Acknowledge the transgender, aroacespec, poly and ambiamorous people, people of colour, disabled people, and people who are otherwise underrepresented within queer spaces. But lately QPRs have been on my mind for a simple reason: I want to ask a friend to start one. So when the time comes I will update this blog post, and you, dear websurfer, will get to hear all about it! <3

I'm really proud of myself today. I finished everything I set out to do by 12:15. AM. I took a day off of school because there was an event I didn't want to go to nor would I have been a valuable asset, and it was among my most productive days ever. I finished an English assignment (which I had barely started prior), completed a third of a university assignment, and finished the home page of this very site. Only the English and university I intended on doing. The home page was a sidequest I completed because I was feeling silly. And this is the first blog I've ever made on a website I've created so. HAII!! o//
Pretty much what I did was switched between two tasks. I'd write a paragraph of my English, read and annotate an article for university, write another paragraph for English, write up the annotations in pargraph form to the assignment document, ask my teacher for feedback on my English assignment (I'll most likely get the feedback tomorrow), ask my mama for feedback on my university assignment, and then I looked at the time. I had all day to do what I wanted. (I forgot I had another task which we do not speak of) (My Society and Culture teacher is going to fight me)
The problem with this burst of productivity is that I can't replicate it on an actual schoolday. You see, schools as an institution are stupid (for most learning styles and forms of productivity). Hence I don't know what it is that allowed me to do what I did today. I think it's that I cut the bullshit and got to it. I didn't have to travel to school, sit around doing fuckall (that's a joke, I get to see my amazing awesome beautiful wife of a morning), until I go to class and... do fuckall. What's the balance between productivity and the bumfuckery that is school as an institution to still allow youth to socialise, create connections, etc.? Fuck knows, it's subjective, it's impossible to find a perfect balance. Maybe I'm the one that sucks, but I'm not going to admit that, so school sucks.